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The Words We Use

Wayne — Sun, 18 Dec 2011 01:25:49 +0000

The words we use everyday shape your vibration, they shape our world. When we use words that are negative the world around us will be negative. If your words are neutral your world is neutral, if your words are positive then your world is positive.

Your words are literally vibrations that effect the environment around you, for something that we all do all the time we will do the best when our words are the best. The words you use constantly send energy vibrations through your environment. The meanings of the words matter, as does the tone of the words we use. If we use positive meaning words but have a negative tone, they are not going to help us much.

It keeps getting more and more subtle, all the way to our thoughts. In fact it is our thoughts in which our words manifest, they are the seed of our words and are the prime creative energy in which we create our reality, and it is from our thoughts that our words come.

Our words are like slowed down thoughts, they are a little more physical a little more “real” in that sense. And like anything that has more mass, words have more inertia behind them. So it can be harder to change our habits with our words. It really takes a change in the habits of our thoughts, but sometimes our thoughts are so fast and elusive that it can be easier to notice our words and begin to change them there, by making the intention to change the habit of our words we will begin to change the habit of our thoughts to match. Though changing your thought habits through forms meditation are a great way of changing your word patterns.

Our words are important in shaping the world around us. We manifest that which we talk about. One way or another what we are always talking about will manifest around us.

Why does this happen? Why do words have such a huge impact on our world? Because the more we say something the more we are alike it, we are alike it because we begin to believe that which we constantly tell ourselves and others around us. The more we believe it the more we start to vibrate on the same level as that which we are believing. We start to become that which we believe and we start to believe that which we say. This all comes down to the most basic rule of the universe: like attracts like.

You attract more of that same energy vibration into your life that you constantly speak. Notice the energy vibration of your speech. How is your speech effecting the world around you. Is it making you feel good? Is it bringing in good things to your life? Notice the words that you use and how they make you feel.

Some words are more effective than other words. Personal, Direct, Positive, Concise, Clear, Specific, Emotional words are superior.

When we speak, when we write, we will use words that have a positive direct impact on ourselves and our world.

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For best results BE YOURSELF

Wayne — Wed, 19 May 2010 07:29:46 +0000

The key to life is being yourself. So much of our days are spent trying to be what others say we should be. So much of our days are spent trying to follow frameworks or guidelines of what others tell us to do and believe.

Yet the key to success is actually in NOT doing what others have told us what to do. The key to success is in doing what you know is best to do for yourself. The key to success is following your own guidance. The key to success is in listening to your heart and following it. The key to success is in truly being yourself.

Others are constantly trying to tell you what how to do things. But the key to remember is that they don’t know what is best for you. They don’t know your specific unique situation, at best they can give you broad general strokes from experiences of their own lives.

There is no guru outside of yourself. This is the one point that I would like to come away with in this article. There is no guru outside of yourself. The best teacher is yourself.

We are constantly being told that the answer lies outside of ourselves. We are constantly giving our power away to doctors or teachers or anyone as if they could really truly help us. And I’m sure that they can in some points, when our heart guides to the advice of others it is good to take it, but we must remember the advice of others is only as good as it sounds true in your heart.

You are your own guru. You have all the answers within yourself. This is the truth. I’m not saying that you don’t need anything outside of yourself, as long as you are living you will be taking in information from outside of yourself. What I am asking you to do is look inside to your own innate beauty and abundance of knowledge.

Honestly who best to know what you need than yourself? Who best to know your answers than you? Honestly if you really thought about it, I bet that you could answers 99% of the questions you have yourself if you just allowed yourself the time for them to come to you.

So if you really want to do something focus on doing it as you would do it. Think about what you want to accomplish and then just go about it, don’t worry about how others say to accomplish it, just go about it, go for it, just GO FOR IT.

In fact from my experience I think there is a direct correlation between those who follow their heart/instinct/gut/etc and success. In fact I’m just going to go ahead and say it; there is a direct correlation between those who follow their heart and success.

There is. The more real you are, the more attractive you are, the more everything you are. Realness is what creates success. In fact I don’t know anyone who has any real success who didn’t get there by not being real to themselves.

So if the key to life is being yourself, being real to yourself, then how do we do it? How do we throw away all our preconditioning and become in alignment with our true nature?

Well let me tell you… NOT. Let me not tell you that. You know why? Because that would be just us falling into the same old routine again, of me (or it could be anyone) telling you what to do.

All you have to do is ask yourself the question that makes the most sense to you. Maybe it sounds like; what do I do more of to be in alignment with my truth, or maybe it sounds something like; how can I be more real with myself? Or maybe it sounds something like, how can I begin to understand what is really true for myself?

The key here is to listen to yourself. The key is to always listen to yourself. Become aware of your own inner nature, and follow your own framework, this will give you the best results in the end.

Enjoy.

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The importance of clear goals

Wayne — Tue, 04 May 2010 17:31:48 +0000

Are you doing what you love? Do you feel so motivated that you can’t wait to get up in the morning and get to it?

Or do you feel bored and uninspired?

When we are uninspired we begin to unconsciously let others tell us what to do. We start to create by default, or we create based on what other people tell us to create.

If you don’t have a clear idea what it is you want then it can only be a short time until someone else starts to tell you what you should want and what you should do. Usually this comes in the form of advertisements via the media, and sometimes it comes from friends or family who while meaning well, are just filling your head with their own desires, not yours.

Without clear goals you can’t blame anyone else but yourself for leading an uninspired life.

Get clear on what you want! Think about this, on an average day how much time do you spend doing what you have decided to based on your goals verses on much time you spend doing something out of boredom, a feeling of fear based on what others tell you you must do?

Working for others we forget what really inspires us. Our lack of clarity manifests itself when we start to create based on the clarity of others, we create what others want us to create because we are not clear enough on what we want to create ourselves.

We must be absolutely clear what our goals are if we are to lead an inspired life.

We have to really work on that which we want and that which we want only.

We have to give our goals 100% of our focus and continually say NO to the desires of others, this is the only way that we can begin to lead an inspired life, one in which we are absolutely loving and deeply inspired each and every moment to live in! A life in which every moment is sacred and fulfilled. Your life inspired is SO much better than your life uninspired.

Basically it all comes down to this. Are you going to get clear on what inspires you? Or are you just going to do what others tell you you should be inspired to do?

Are you going to lead an inspired life in which you are loving each and every moment, or are you going to lead a life in which you work for others feeling uninspired, stressed, and bored?

So get clear on what inspires you. Get clear on what it is that you truly want to be doing with your time. And just start doing it. Start slow if you must, but you MUST start NOW.

-Wayne

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Poison Into Medicine – Gratitude

Wayne — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 06:55:27 +0000

I have been reading the Ringing Ceders series of books and have found them most life changing. One aspect of the books that I keep coming back to again and again is how spiritually un-evolved our global culture is. She makes constant indirect references to our destructive, inefficient, primitive society, and she makes a lot of sense.

Anastasia makes such a strong argument against what she calls our “technocratic” world that its hard not to feel a sense of disgust for the current state of world civilization, and it is this feeling of disgust that I would like to talk about now.

I do not tolerate the saying “ignorance is bliss,” a life of ignorance is a life unexamined, and the unexamined life is not worth living! So if we are to examine our life and our current situation, and by necessity the current world situation, we are bound to feel a sense of disgust, especially after reading books like the Anastasia which explain other more joyful ways of living. So then what is one to do now?

What we do now is what we will always do first to achieve change, be grateful. The key to change is gratitude for what is now, already. If we don’t find ways to feel grateful for what we already have then we will just continue the disgust, disgust of what is disgusting only begets more disgust. But gratitude for disgust begins to beget something more more beautiful than what one is grateful for. Gratitude is truly the most amazing tool we have at our disposal it literally has the power to turn poison into medicine.

And what is gratitude? Gratitude is thankfully loving what is.

Gratitude works to get you to where you want to go by grounding you down in the present moment. To get to any point you need to know two things; where you are now and where you are going. Gratitude makes you aware of where you are now and it helps you develop the positive feelings needed to get where you want to go. Because you can’t get to where you are going on an empty tank, you need feelings of positivity to bring more positivity into your life.

So if we are to live this life we are bound to want something better, and to get something better we must first be grateful for what we have. Gratitude sets our current point and give us positive emotions that fuel our forward progress.

So don’t be distressed if you find yourself living in such a “technocratic” world. Realize that if you really, really, want to change it, you must change your feelings towards it, and it will change. Love it. Accept. And watch your world change.

Blessings to all.

Effective Gratitude and Everlasting Happiness

Vibrations Are Everything

Wayne — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 04:54:25 +0000

The vibrations, and by vibrations I mean the thoughts, feelings and actions you send out into the universe, hugely determine the world you live in especially your thoughts and emotions, because what you give you receive. This is really a key fundamental truth of the universe. Many people call this the Law Of Attraction. So if your vibrations are high and positive your life will be filled with positive high vibration things, people and places. The external is a mirror of the internal, it really is.

This is why its so important that we do what we are passionate about and what makes us really feel good (as explained in my last podcast).

This is also why its so important to connect with people if you really want to help someone, because its all about the vibrations you have when you are with them that determine the quality of the interaction. If you really want to make someone feel better you simply allow them to access that part of themselves that already feels great, you don’t have to do anything but keep feeling great yourself. If you feel like yo have to fix them or something then what kind of vibration are you sending out to the universe? You are attracting situations in which things don’t work, or in which things or people are broken and need fixing, that need your help. So keep doing what you are doing if you want to continue attracting that.

If you want to attract something different in your life you have to shift your internal state. This is why its so nice to be around people who feel good, because they are not trying to make you feel good, they are just accepting you as you are and feeling good as they are, because thats what they are attracting into the world. If you want to create more peace in the world you have to be more peaceful. You can’t go to anti-war protests and expect their to be more piece in the world, you can’t get angry and expect there to be more love in the world. You have to have love and there will be more love in the world. When you are loving you will be attracting more love in the world.

You have to be the change you want to see in the world. If you want to be happy you have to start doing those things that make you happy now. If you want to be peaceful you have to start doing those things that make you peaceful now. And its not really a matter of doing things that make you peaceful or happy its about simply just shifting your attention, your thoughts, on those things that make you peaceful and happy and then your actions will follow.

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Podcast #2 – How To Follow Your Passion

Wayne — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 04:29:54 +0000

In this podcast I discuss the reasons why its important to follow your passion and how to start doing it by calming the fears of the mind. Related Posts Podcast 1 – Authenticity and Positivity Vibrations Are Everything Finding Your Passion

Accomplish More In Less Time with Wu Wei

Wayne — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 23:45:09 +0000

“Winter Velvet” by ebergcanada.

Wu Wei which is usually translated as action through inaction is one of my favorite Taoist terms. Understanding this simple, yet profound, idea has helped me focus on those areas of my life that are most important and yield the most results. Let me explain how by not doing those things that are unimportant and don’t lead to the accomplishment of your goals you are actually doing more than if you did them.

When you take the time not do unimportant things you actually accomplish more than if you took action on those unimportant things. By not doing that which is not in line with your goals you are actually creating much more time and space to do that which is in line with your goals; there is plenty of action in inaction. By consciously choosing not to do those things that are not in line with your goals you are creating the life you want to live, you are practicing Wu Wei – action through inaction, you are becoming extremely efficient. Many people think that to be more efficient you have to accomplish more in less time, but my view of efficiency is accomplishing less in less time, or in other words accomplishing those items which are vitally important to your goals and nothing else.

By choosing not to take action on those things that are not in alignment with your goals you are actually doing more than if you did them and also that by having more time in your life.

Another important reason to do less is that it gives you time to meditate on that which is really important to you. Its very important that we realize what our goals are so we can build a solid foundation for our life.

In our modern world of to-do lists, agendas, calendars, etc, its vitally important that we set apart time everyday for inaction, by doing nothing we learn that which is most important and do just that. Accomplish those things that are only important to your goals and watch your real productivity increase.

How To Accomplish Anything

Podcast 1 – Authenticity and Positivity

Wayne — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 07:57:52 +0000

I have recorded my first podcast. I know its a little rough around the edges but I will get better better and better as I practice more.

I almost ditched this recording because it has a lot of “ums” and “likes” but I feel there are some really strong points in the recording that people could really benefit from.

The main points this podcast goes into are authenticity and positivity. I touch on how its a common theme in the conscious community to say act happy when you actually aren’t and how its actually much more important to be authentic than to be afraid of putting negative vibes out. I also touch on the notion of positivity as a state of being that is a result of loving and accepting yourself. Positivity as a state of being can not be had, you can’t try and be positive, being positive comes from loving and accepting yourself as you are right now.

So check out the podcast and let me know how you like it in the comments section below.

The Number One Obstacle to Manifesting Your Desires

Wayne — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 19:22:49 +0000

Many people get stuck in their manifestation process by trying to think of HOW the universe is going to provide them with what they are asking for. However, the key to really getting what you want is to let go of the HOWs and let the universe take care of it! Your job is just to be crystal clear on what you want. Once you are clear on what you want, your job is over – the HOWs will manifest themselves.

Why? Because you don’t know all the possibilities that can bring your desires to you. By trying to pigeonhole the universe into your own ideas of how your desires will come about severely limits the potential of possibilities, and in the end it probably won’t work out HOW you had thought it would anyway. The thing is, there are so many thousands of ways for your desires to manifest in this world – most of which you are not really conscious of. By focusing your energy on that relatively tiny number of ways you think your desires could manifest, you limit yourself from receiving the thousands of ways it could happen. If you relax and let go of trying to figure out HOW it will happen, you open yourself to the utterly perfect way in which it will happen.

It is hard for the mind to not immediately think of ways in which your desires can manifest after it becomes clear on what your desires are. In fact, it’s the mind’s job to synthesize, compare and eventually come up with answers. The key realization is that once you are clear on your desires, there are far more answers that your mind cannot realize as to how to solve the question of how you will manifest your desires.

There is no way your mind can hold all the millions (may I say millions of millions) of possible possibilities by which your desires can manifest. It might be able to hold 10 at most – someone with a very active mind might be able to think of 50 ways their desires might manifest, but I can guarantee you that there are thousands upon thousands more!

The beautiful realization here is that we don’t have to ask how our desires will manifest, we just have to be clear on what they are… and the mind is great at doing that. Once we are clear, we simply have to remain focused on what we want, and allow.

The New Conscious Evolution Is Here

Wayne — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 07:09:30 +0000

It’s time for a change. I have realized that my true calling is leading a revolution in thinking about personal development and achievement. My birthday present to myself this year was to quit my day job (as a developer for a web firm in my area) to do that which I feel truly called to do…

This blog is a start of that.

I have a lot more to learn and an amazing life ahead of me, and I can’t wait to share it here. I can’t wait to post on all the things about which I am most passionate, specifically the new paradigm of thinking and interacting with the world. Some example topics I will touch on include: how to have better relationships; how to create more abundance in your life; how to be more productive; and generally how to take your life to the next level.

But more importantly I will ask the bigger questions, like what does it even mean to be in relationship? What does it even mean to have more abundance in your life? Why would we even want to be more productive, and what does it even really mean to take take your life to the next level?

In our society we are so fast to try to solve problems, but have we even looked closely at the root of the problems themselves? Not enough people are asking the questions that really matter. I’m tired of status-quo-personal-development that simply teaches you how to play the game a little better. Let’s transcend the game altogether! Let’s collectively take a close look at our beliefs and go to the root of our problems.

I aim to make this a blog of new thought. A blog about new ways of looking at old problems. This blog is for the new age and for the betterment of all human kind. Let us usher in the new era of personal achievement and conscious growth. The time for the new conscious evolution is now.

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